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Thursday, 7 May 2020

Self Medicated - Updated with Photograph!!

No, I haven't been ill, apart from having a few days given over to migraine and nausea, but I have been self medicating, without drugs.    I occasionally suffer from the type of migraine which completely wipes me out with pain and sickness, which usually last three days, then they go, leaving me feeling worn out, but pain free.

I know the food/drink which triggers them, so they don't feature in my diet.  However, something was causing this fresh crop of them.   I decided that perhaps it was stress.

My mornings were spent reading/skimming half a dozen British newspapers, of all colours, I like to get a balanced view, make up my own mind instead of relying on the bias of any one journalist or paper with their inevitable political leaning.    I would move on to reading papers from Germany, France and the States.

Lunchtime would see me dipping in to watch an hour of the news on assorted television channels, including RT and Al Jazeera!

In between times I kept an eye on the worldometer, Johns Hopkins, and reading blogs; no wonder my stress levels were increasing.

I admit that I am avoid medication wherever possible, so I decided to try a total news blackout.  Jump off the merry-go-round.  Step away from those things which were winding me up.



I have taken time to enjoy even longer walks with Toby, gardening, organising my (far too many) shelves of books, baking, reading, and I have even watched a few very enjoyable films:  The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society, The Bookshop, and The Bookthief. 

It was really difficult to keep away from the news, etc, but I feel much better for it! 

I have emerged a calmer person, free from headaches at present!

The only thing it didn't help with was my hair.   I haven't been to the hairdresser since very early November...so you can imagine how much it had grown.    It should have been cut in January, but the episode of the broken ribs meant that I couldn't do that.

The ribs have healed, slowly, although I still feel as though I have a strong bulldog clamp on one rib.  Time will sort that out, or I will learn to live with it. 

Time drifts, my hair grew longer, which was nice at first, but then it reached tipping point.   It made me feel a mess, which was making me feel grumpy/grumpier.

What to do?   Watch a few clips on U Tube - how to cut your own hair...  It didn't look too difficult.

I searched my drawers, found up an ancient pair of thinning scissors.   Decided to have a practice -  on husband's hair!      At first I was nervous, but once I relaxed and just did what looked right, it became easier.   Result, one pleased and very neat-looking husband.

Time to have a go at my own hair.

So I did.   Result: one slightly asymmetrical Old English Sheepdog-style hair do, just what I was aiming for.  😀 



Cutting the back was difficult, but I just clipped away until it felt right.    I know it is messy, far from perfect, but I love it, which is just as well because now I have to wear it for quite a while!



(Eeeek!  Never mind the haircut, look at that double chin!  Lockdown chin?)




25 comments:

  1. You are brave to cut your own hair. I've done my bangs only and got them too short.
    The chimney swifts I mentioned before are back. We can see them doing their acrobatic flying when we sit at table for breakfast or dinner.

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    1. Hello Marcia, It was desperation which drove me to do it! In the end I decided it was only hair, it will grow again.
      Lovely to hear that your birds are back and you can enjoy watching their acrobatics as you dine.

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  2. Photo please! I love the sound of your haircut, it is what I always ask for at the hairdressers and never, ever get!

    I am a migraine sufferer too, so you have my sympathy, mine seem to have gone after the menopause. Although I do have occasional visual migraine which is a pain free sort. Horrible because you feel like you are having a stroke, you look at people and part of their face is missing or prose on a page with gaps. I am still not convinced it is not a minor stroke even after a head scan.

    Good to have you back Elaine, think you have the right idea about the news...

    LX

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    1. Hello Linda,
      No promises, I really DETEST having my photograph taken, but I will see what I can do about the selfie.

      I understand what you mean about the visual migraine, I have those too. I lose a tiny area of sight, then it gradually increases in size and has a brightly, multicoloured zig-zag line around it. Almost exactly twenty minutes later, it has gone. Strange and worrying, especially on the first few occasions!

      May you/we be migraine free!

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    2. Wow, Wow, double Wow! First of all the haircut is blooming amazing, I absolutely love it. Exactly what I always ask for and never ever get! So good for you and for braving the photo op. Another thing we share, I also hate having my photograph being taken.

      Am I pleased I mentioned my visual migraine symptoms as what you describe is exactly the same as mine, even to the zig-zag lines. So now the thought of things more sinister than be put to rest,

      LX

      P.S. Do you fancy a trip to Ludlow to cut mine? Silly me... I forgot!

      XxX


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  3. You've done a brilliant job on your hair. - Not sheepdog at all.
    If I'd have had a pair of thinning scissors I might not have needed to go mad with the Number 5 comb on the clippers!

    Too much news is certainly depressing I'm glad you feel better now without it - what was the Bookshop film?

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    1. Thanks, Sue. Penelope Fitzgerald wrote The Bookshop, a story about a woman in an East Anglian village who decides to open a bookshop. It's mostly a study of human behaviour, I suppose. I read the book several years ago, and thoroughly enjoyed it. Then I spotted the film on Netflix/Amazon, or somewhere, and decided to give it a go. The film is also excellent. Now I am re-reading the book again and thoroughly enjoying it. I am much better now that my news input is severely limited!

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  4. I am not brave enough to cut my curly, thick and shoulder length hair but wish I were! I am now pushing it all back from my face with a hair band. People used to seeing me with short hair are looking twice when they see me. I am fortunate in that I don't have migraines but do suffer from stress headaches. The coverage on TV news outlets of the caronavirus has been all consuming here in the states. Leaving the TV off has helped with my headaches tremendously and made me a more agreeable person to live with!💖

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    1. Hello Susan, I took a deep breath and started snipping,hoping for the best! I checked today, and I am glad to say that I am still happy with the result - luckily. Too much news input is definitely bad for our health. Good to hear that your headaches are improving.

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  5. I try to avoid all but the bare facts for Wales news and leave the room if what a nursing friend calls "ICU porn" comes on the screen. That way I can cope - well, I say that but in common with many others, sleeping poorly and bad dreams seem to be routine right now.

    I have cut my hair for several years now. I do the sides and my husband tidies up the back. Any . . . anomalies . . . are hidden when I use the tongs to roll it under. Yet, I haven't used them since Lockdown as not going anywhere I have to look presentable! It certainly needs doing now as heading towards shoulder length.

    I have heard (via eldest daughter) that there are now "underground" or "black market" hairdressers out there . . . I can resist those with ease! I guess if you desperately need your roots done or you are looking like Shock-Headed Peter, then something has to give!

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    1. Hello BB,
      It made me think about how much money I have saved by not having all my usual appointments at the hairdresser, plus I got the look that I wanted, rather than her interpretation...can't help wondering whether it was beginners luck though. My 'savings' could well find their way into my money for books stash, much more fun.

      I know what you mean about not needing to look presentable, I dress for my morning dog walk, meaning to change later in the day, but somehow the day drifts away and I look a scruff all day. I did make an exception this afternoon, we had a little VE Day tea party with our daughter and family, across the garden. I got dressed up for that, even had my ruby red party shoes on, bought for Christmas and not worn since. Everything has been cleared away now, including my smart clothes, I am just me in my slobby jeans and jumper again - a kind of comfort blanket.

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  6. We gave up watching the news and when I do will not worry about what I hear. I see not point in letting it get to you as there is little I can do and what happens will take it's course. My hair has grown as has my wife's but I'm going to let mine grow.

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    1. Hello Billy, Quite right about the news, immersing oneself in it really is unhealthy. I suppose you could always tuck your hair into your hat and no one would be any the wiser, for a while.

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  7. Yes! I did the same regarding no news. I was feeling uptight and nervous about all the happenings so decided no more news. I was checking every half an hour when this all started! Now I have a quick look on a news app once a day and thats it. I feel so much better and calmer. Your hair looks very trendy by the way!!

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    1. Hello Evi, Good to know that you are feeling better, too. It is amazing what a rusty old pair of thinning scissors and some tiny embroidery scissors can do. Between Utube and all those hours I have spent watching various hairdressers snip my tresses, they managed to produce a hairstyle I can 'manage'.

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  8. I love the hairdo and can't see a double chin.

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    1. Hello Susan, Thank you. I am glad to say that I am still happy with the hair, it is very easy to style, such a relief!

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  9. That happens to me. I call it The Three Day Headache.
    I do like your hair. If I ever get to the hairdresser again, I wonder if she can duplicate it.

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    1. Hello Joanne, She would probably throw her hands up in horror! May you never find yourself hit by three day headaches again. x

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  10. So happy to hear you managed your headaches. I can't imagine what that must be like. And bravo on the haircut. I'm just pinning mine back and waiting a bit longer because I just know I will end up looking like a mangy cat if I try to cut it on my own.

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    1. Hello Deb, You could never look like a mangy cat!

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  11. You have done an amazing job on the hair. We have stopped reading the newspapers and watching all the news, we dip into it now and again for updates and feel so much better for it. Take care and stay safe.

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    1. Thank you, mamasmercantile. Sometimes it is a blessing when we can't connect to the internet, especially if you have plenty of craft work to keep you busy. You are due a very chilly weekend, I believe.

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  12. You have done a great job on your hair. I'm lucky that my hair doesn't look too bad yet, as I don't think I'd have the courage to tackle it myself.
    Don't blame you for stopping watching the news etc. I decided long ago that I would only watch the news once a day to save my sanity and also to have as much time as poss to do enjoyable and useful things.
    Hope your migraines stay away. Have a lovely and safe weekend.

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    1. Thanks, Vesna! It has been a very busy morning, no time to even attempt to catch up on the news as we have been rescuing some wildlife, more of that on the blog, later. I hope the sun is shining on you this weekend.

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